Saturday, September 26, 2009

Fireproof

Nico and I watched fireproof today. We both cried so much. What a powerful movie! While I was watching I was thinking that I don't think Nico and I will ever reach that stage of it being very close to over. We both have strong conviction about divorce not being an option. Having said that, friends of ours from church who probably had the same convictions going in to marriage are on the brink of seperating. It came as such a shock. The truth is that sometimes things drive us over the edge, life happens. But as the song says "It's a slow fade". I am convinced that if Nico and I keep living 100% for God it will not happen. It is as we let bad things creep into our lives and let them stay there, that our marriage will be in danger. Scary but true. I can't do this without God.

What this blog is about

I just want to journal this journey. What a crazy journey. It has only been 2,5 months and I have already learnt so much. I just don't want to forget the lessons. And I don't want to forget the good times and fun time and bad times and and and... Maybe it can help someone.

Blogging

Another effort to start a blog. Hopefully a successful one. My sister is big on blogging. I think the trick is to have a long term goal and remember the long term goal. No short terms satisfaction.